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Expert: Parents should ask babies for "consent" before changing their diapers
https://theconversation.com/nappy-changes-are-not-just-a-chore-to-rush-through-you-can-use-them-to-teach-consent-269509

There has been a lot of focus on the need to teach older children about consent. But parents should not wait until kids are teenagers to talk about appropriate touching or how everyone has the right to say what happens to their body.

In fact, the earlier parents talk about this with their kids, the better.

You can start teaching little ones about consent even before they can talk. Here’s how you can do this during everyday care.
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At the start of a nappy change, ensure your child knows what is happening. Get down to their level and say, “you need a nappy change” and then pause so they can take this in.

Then you can say, “do you want to walk/crawl with me to the change table, or would you like me to carry you?”

Observe their facial expressions and body language to check if they understand what is happening. Aim to be positive, gentle and responsive to your child.

Seems like there are probably much better ways to teach this lesson to kids later in life. Does anyone think this is a good idea?
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The baby is crying because the diaper is dirty as crap.

Expert: Wait for consent first!

Parent: Confused.

Me: WHAT THE ACTUAL FU** JUST CHANGE THE DIAPER!!!

Psycho "expert".
I think circumcision would be far more important regarding consent...
what the heyell.....
you have never actually seen the Birthing Table. Else you would never even acknowledge the idea of foul play.


That does not mean you let them loose against your love. It simply means....


you have never loved. :|
It sounds like that is one of the most bat crap crazy "experts" I have ever seen.

It's absolutely nuts that people THAT out of touch with reality could ever reach a position where they are considered an "expert" by anyone.
The article's premise is ridiculous only if you turn your brain off. There are many cases of young children being sexually assaulted by babysitters, teachers, some friend's dad at a sleepover, etc. and being unable to identify and speak about their abuse, allowing it to continue.

Yes, there are probably better way of teaching toddlers to understand when touching is inappropriate, but I wouldn't wait until they're teens to properly explain that sort of thing.
引用自 Joe Cool
It sounds like that is one of the most bat crap crazy "experts" I have ever seen.

It's absolutely nuts that people THAT out of touch with reality could ever reach a position where they are considered an "expert" by anyone.
That's The Conversation for you. They take a good or at least rational idea and push it to such an absurd extreme that you can't help but interact with the article.
Nah, better just leave them in their $hitty diapers. Bet they'd love that. Probably what your parents should've done with the expert.
最后由 asarokk 编辑于; 7 小时以前
Change the shopkeepahs diaper at the fish store where i took my dog
It is not a new concept.
We did this with our children (talked about agency and rights to say no)

They need to be toddlers in my opinion, not babies.

People will misunderstand the article however.
Articles like this are catnip for boomers lol.

引用自 Würm
I think circumcision would be far more important regarding consent...

I will have a talk with my rabbi about this.
Proof that anyone can claim to be an expert.
seems like it could be a CPS/DCS case
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